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The Missionary Wife’s Role in the Ministry By Austin Gardner

“The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” Titus 2:3-5

  1. Remember that the people where you will be serving will see you as their pastor’s wife!
    1. Great Responsibility as the pastor’s wife.
      1. You are responsible for the growth of the ladies in your church and ministry
        1. Teach them the spiritual lessons that they should learn
        2. Teach them how to live at home
        3. Teach them how to treat their husband and children
        4. Teach them how to serve others
      2. You need to help the ladies so as to protect your husband and his testimony. Genesis 20:16. “And unto Sarah he said, Behold, I have given thy brother a thousand pieces of silver: behold, he is to thee a covering of the eyes, unto all that are with thee, and with all other: thus she was reproved.”
        1. You are his veil or covering; his separation from other women.
        2. Keep an open relationship with your husband. No secrets, no locked doors
        3. Protect your family life and testimony

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How to Start a Bible College

  1. Be sure to have a local church that is already training its folks. The college will be a natural outgrowth of your ministry as a Biblical pastor or missionary.  Matthew 28:19-20, Ephesians 4, II Timothy 2:2,
  2. Have the knowledge and ability that the people can see, want, and imitate
  3. Where do I get teachers. Do not use other missionaries unless they are in agreement with you.
  4. Daytime Bible College versus Night time Bible Institute
    1. Explain credit hours
    2. Remember they need more training than someone who grew up in church
    3. You can have 1 hour classes or 2 hour classes
    4. If you give enough homework you can give credit for an extra hour on any class
    5. Allow independent study classes for those who really want it and are really willing to pay the price
    6. Class hours
      1. Monday night 6:30 to 9:00 for two hours of class and 1/2 of chapel
      2. Tuesday night 6:30 to 9:00 for two hours of class and 1/2 of chapel
      3. You can go longer or start earlier, remember that they can take one or class or all the classes
  5. What level of training do you want to have?
  6. What age group do you choose to teach?
  7. Requirements to enter Bible College
    1. Saved, baptized, active church member
    2. Tithing
    3. Serving
    4. Separated
    5. One year of growth
    6. Willingness to submit to the authority and leadership of the Bible College
    7. Be involved in a ministry in your church

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Your Disposition On Deputation by Missionary Tony Howeth

It has been stated that life is 10%  what happens to you and 90% how you react to those things and their consequences.  There is much truth to that in life and especially concerning Deputation.  I am sure none of these are original!   I learned or heard them from someone else but have been very much personalized over the last 16 months.  I pray these will help you as you serve our Lord on Deputation.

D – Discern why you are on deputation.  If the total focus of your time, travel and teaching is to get money you will be sorely disappointed when no love offering comes your way.  You are given the opportunity to stir, motivate and encourage others about the greatest thing ever and that is world evangelism.  Would you rather have a “good love offering” or have  a young man  surrender to the call to preach? If God can’t use you to minister to the lives of people on deputation, what makes you think that He would use you to minister to others once you get to the field?

E – Educate yourself as to your responsibility.  Many missionaries complain of being on deputation for so long yet they have been in relatively few churches.  The question is not how many months have you been on deputation but how many churches have you been in?  I have met brothers who have been on deputation for a year and a half and have 30% of their support. That is not the problem, the problem is that they have only been in 75 different churches….that is only one new church a week! That is the problem! All of us will have to go to around 200 churches….you must decide how quickly you want to do that!  Call, fill your schedule, write letters and learn how to present your ministry.  Try to average 12+ meetings a month and once you are in a church present your work by God’s grace in such a way that they will never forget your name and the field you are going to. Again, learn how to do a calendar, make phone calls, schedule your meetings, present your work, carry yourself, talk to pastor’s, etc.  God will do His part…will we do ours?  Be careful not to blame God for something you were responsible for. Read More

Multiplication By Dawson Trotman

Notes taken from preaching by Dawson Trotman:

Multiplication was the 1st thing God told Adam and Eve – and to Noah and his family when got off the ark

  1. One can not multiply if no union (man with his wife) — and one can not spiritually multiply if do not know Christ
  2. One cannot multiply if sterile or a sickness – a Christian that does not have the spiritual union with Christ and gossips and lives in sin is sick spiritually and cannot reproduce. One is spiritually sterile when they do not have a daily walk with the Lord
  3. One can not multiply if lacks maturity (a kid can not b/c his body is not ready) – if Christian is a babe (I Cor. 2-3) and immature, they can not reproduce

There are Christians that have been saved for years and have never reproduced – I don’t want to know how many tracts you passed out, rather how many sheep you have.

So many people are ready to cross an ocean and learn a language, but do not have anyone they have won and living for Christ. And so many lay people are sitting and not producing. Could it be a lack of communion with the Lord? Could it be sin in your life? Could it be that you are still a babe and need to be taught again?

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Why not to take your parents when move to mission field? Mark Tolson

    • You can’t treat them right, it is selfish to want to give them all the hard work (dealing with kids in the plane and with jet lag once arrived) when you are suppose to be the “hero” missionaries making the sacrifice to reach your country.
    • It is “out of focus”—meaning that you land on the field and start running and working, this is what you have been dreaming of for years and you won’t be able to do that because you have to take care of your parents (no matter how tuff you are on your parents, they are always needy because they are foreigners in the country). How will they eat, sleep, get around when you can’t even do the basics yet?
    • It shows mistrust towards the missionary because they have people who are able to watch your kids when you land on the field, but instead of trusting their judgement you are brining your parents.
    • It shows a lack of authority and leadership, that you can’t tell your parents/in laws “No, now is not the best time to come, I have a job to do, you can come in a year.”
    • It continues jet-lag and doesn’t help overcome it. If parents are stuck in a room all day watching your children while you are out and about buying the necessitates, then it is most likely the parents and the children will be sleeping on and off through the day. To adjust to jet lag you need to be awake all day and being “out and about” helps you and your children to be moving. If a maid is needed to watch the kids, at least she is fully awake to help the kids stay awake.

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