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Jeffrey Bush is currently the President of Vision Baptist Missions. He joined Vision Baptist Missions in May 2012. Prior to this assignment, the Bush family served as missionaries in South America for ten years. Out of those ten years, eight were spent in Argentina. The Lord tremendously blessed the ministry there with five churches established and left firmly planted with national leadership, a Bible college, and a radio ministry. All five churches are presently pastored by graduates of the Bible college, and the ministry in Argentina continues to grow.

You can find all of Bro Jeff’s Book in English and Spanish on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00MIMZHHO?ingress=0&visitId=69f61f4d-ec9c-46db-8d08-61014dfcae85&ref_=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1

How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere

By Larry King

• You have to love what you are doing. You can’t fake that, people will see right through it.
• The right attitude is a basic ingredient to becoming a better conversationalist.
• To be a good conversationalist, you have to have a sincere interest in the other person and an openness to others about yourself.
• Respect everyone in the audience, look them in the eye and think about their interests.
• Everyone is ignorant in some area, so you can help them if that arena.
• People can always tell if you respect them. Others will listen to you better if they know you are interested in them.
• The golden rule, doing to others as you want them to do to you, is essential in speaking to others.
• Remind yourself that the people in the room are probably just as shy as you are.
• You should know that nothing you say will teach you anything, so ask questions and listen. Most people don’t listen. 
• To be a good talker, you have to be a good listener.
• Good follow-up questions are the mark of a good conversationalist.
• Don’t just listen to the answers of the questions, listen to what the person is really saying.
• Making eye contact with the person before, during, and after they talk, goes along way and make you a good conversationalist.
• Staying informed to what is going on in the world will help you as you work at being a good conversationalist.
• Find a common ground with the person you’re speaking to and hone in on that.
• Don’t try to be the life of the conversation when people are trying to get down to business.
• Some people, when asked what time it is, go on to explain how a watch works – don’t be that person.
• All of us are salesman trying to sell something. Know what you are selling and don’t quit until you close the deal.
• Show people what you can do for them. Show them what is unique. 
• Be prepared.
• Don’t wing it. If you do, you will run the risk of going too long, use words like “uh,” or lose the interest and respect of others listening.
• Don’t be afraid to use humor. 
• Know your subject and speak from experience, it will be much easier to continue talking and keep attention if you speak on what you know well.
• If you are using notes to teach from, underline or highlight so you know where the emphasis should be placed.
• Stand up straight, do not slouch over or lean on the lectern.
• Abraham Lincoln‘s Gettysburg Address lasted less than five minutes. Another speaker that day spoke for two hours. Only one of the speeches are remembered today— you don’t have to go long. 
• Brevity is important. 
• A good rule of thumb is KISS — Keep It Simple Stupid. 
• Stay positive. Negativity will not get you anywhere. 
• Dress and look sharp. 
• Keep it simple. 

 

How to Instantly Connect with Anyone

By: Leil Lowndes

• You never have a second chance to make a first impression. 

• A firm handshake is important when you meet someone. 

• When introducing someone, say their name before their position.

• You can turn strangers into acquaintances by talking about what they love to talk about – themselves. By talking about them, you can turn that silent stranger into a friendly gabber.

• Ask someone about their day, specifically the last five or six hours. Each conversation has a shelf-life, so talk to them about what is fresh on their mind.

• Customize your conversation or speech to the person(s) you are talking to. if you want to connect with them, tailor your vocabulary for them. 

• Never talk or brag about luxurious things you have with people that cannot or do not have them.

• Keep your differences a secret and your similarities the topic of conversation.

• Immediately conceal someone’s blunders with a quick comment. You will become a friend and hero.

• When you want to change subjects, first repeat something they just said and then link it to the conversation or topic you want to talk about.

• Be unfashionably early to a party or gathering. It is surprisingly much better than arriving late.

• Preserve someone’s self-esteem.

• Do talk about people behind their back, but only if it’s something nice you’re going to say.

• Choose your seating wisely. Let the other person have the better seat and do not sit in a position that makes it hard for them to turn their neck and look at you.

• Read someone’s lips when they are not talking. People are their real selves when no one else is around, so watch them before you start talking to them and you will know what they are feeling.

• When you are writing an email, do not start all of your sentences with the letter “I.” Remove it (letter “I”) from your email — remove it from your conversations as well. 

• Sign your email using the other person’s name. The best word in any language is someone’s name, so use their name at the end of your email or letter.

• When you are meeting with someone and receive a phone call, look at your phone and silence it. This shows that the person you are talking to is more important than anything else at that time.

• Remember an important date or event in someone’s life, and send a letter congratulating them at that time.
• A second thank you is always remembered and greatly appreciate it. Someone expects you to say thank you when they give you something, but say it a second time at another date and you will make their day.

• Elongate your praise for someone. Most people focus on criticism and do not stop with one sentence, yet the praise is very short – switch this around and you will make someone feel very good.

How to Make People Like You in 90 Seconds or Less

By: Nicholas Boothman

• The average person’s span before judgement is only about 30 seconds. 

• Three key elements to make people like you: your presence (how you look), your attitude and how you make people feel. 

• When people like you, they see the best in you.

• When people like you, they feel natural and comfortable around you. 

• Although a handshake only lasts a couple of seconds, you’ll send a strong and friendly message to the other person, if you will do it while looking in someone’s eyes and having a smile. 

• Find a common interest — people talk to people that they like, so if you like or are interested in what they like and are interested in, they will like you.

• There must be a time when you stop talking and just listen.

• Conversation is a way to open another person up and see what is inside.

• Learn to ask open-ended questions, instead of questions that only require a yes or no. 

• What people see is about three times more impactful than what they hear.

• When someone says, “I like you,” they’re really saying, “I am like you.”

• We must learn to connect with other people because life is better when other people are in your life.

Grit

By: Angela Duckworth

• People that don’t give up have a don’t-quit, hang-in-there attitude.
• Those who follow through and finish something are those that have determination and direction.
• Whether a cadet continued or dropped out of West Point was not because of their SAT scores or talent, but because of their grit.
• Future green berets and seals also stick because of their grit.
• Our potential is one thing, but what we do with it is a whole other thing.
• Talent is not destiny.
• Zeal and hard work ultimately beat intellect.
• We love naturals, but effort will go further than talent.
• As much as talent counts for something, effort counts twice as much.
• Greatness is made of many small feats, and all of them are doable!
• Effort builds skill.
• Talent x effort = skill. Skill x effort = achievement.
• 80% of life is showing up — Allen
• How many people start something new and then give up. Grit keeps you going.
• Talent comes naturally, but skill comes from doing something over and over until you get it.
• Grit is more about stamina than intensity.
• There are no shortcuts to excellency.
• Grit isn’t just falling in love but staying in love.
• Grit has two components: passion and perseverance.
• On any long journey, detours are to be expected.
• Grit, talent, and other psychological traits are genetically influenced, but not determined.
• Grit gets back up and continues going when knocked down.
• Passion for your work comes from a lot of discovery, followed by a bunch of development and a lifetime of deepening.
• Just because you love something does not mean you’ll be great at it, it takes a lot of work.
• Deliberate practice separates those that do have and do not have grit.
• Do not let setback become excuses.
• You can grow and obtain grit by starting from within yourself. 
• To be gritty is to fall down seven times and raise eight.