By Nir Eyal and Julie Li
- We must stop doing the wrong things, but we must start doing the right things.
- We already know what to do, but we don’t know how to stop being distracted.
- If your superpower could be being indistractable, you could spend more time with family, get more work done, and accomplish more.
- Distractions will always exist, but managing them is our responsibility.
- Most people do not want to admit that distractions are an escape from reality.
- Time management is pain management.
- People go to extremes to not be bored.
- If we want to master distraction, we must learn to deal with discomfort.
- While we can’t control all the thoughts that pop into our head, we can control what we do with them.
- You it can’t call something a distraction unless you know what it’s distracting you from.
- Planning ahead is the only way to know the difference between traction and distraction.
- There’s nothing wrong with a nap, game, or relaxing if that’s what you’ve planned to do.
- Input is more certain than output. You can’t control what you get out of something but you can control how much time you put into it.
- The people you love deserve more than just getting whatever time is leftover. Go the next step to plan time with them on your calendar.
- Clarify your values.
- To get the most out of your phone:
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- Remove apps you no longer need.
- Replace apps with profitable ones that line up with your values.
- Rearrange according to the most important apps on your home screen and make the others not so easily accessible.
- Reclaim by adjusting notifications, only allowing a few apps to make noise and notify you.
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- Hack back your desktop or laptop. A cluttered Home Screen is not only messy, but it controls distractions.
- Teach children how to be indistractable. It is a quality that will help them throughout all their lives.
- Children must see indistractable modeled by their parents.
- Internal struggles triggers drive behavior.
- Screens and sleep do not mix well.
- Teach children how to swim before diving in. They should learn how to ignore distractions before given a device with dangerous features.
